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Lately I've been getting really                     
bad grades in Social Studies. I
used to get A's and B's, but
now I get F's. I don't know
what's wrong, and I'm afraid to
tell my parents. Please help!

~~~~F's in S.S.~~~~

Dear F's in S.S.,

We understand that sometimes
it can be hard to get good grades
in a certain subject. Especially if
you don't like it, or you don't like
the teacher.Try to make up some fun
study habits. If you really think this
is serious, then tell the teacher, or
write a note to your parents. 
That way you can get some help,
but you don't have to talk to them
F2F (face to face). Your parents will
probably understand, they may have
gotten bad grades when they were
 your age. Also, check out your
school and see if there are any tutors
available. =)

~~~~LOLGURLZ~~~~




Hey LOLGURLZ. OK, so there's this guy. I think I like him, but then I can't decide. He's like three inches shorter (I know that doesn't matter), but I'm completely stuck. We aren't the same race (color), but he's so sweet. We just started going out yesterday and last night I got one of my friends to call him and tell him I just want to be friends. WAS THAT A BIG MISTAKE?? Because now he won't call me back!!! I'm so scared because I can't decide what to do. PLEASE HELP! :(
~~~~Heart Breaker~~~~

Dear Heart Breaker,
We're so sorry. Seems like you've got a lot to handle. Well, first of all, race DOES NOT matter. If you like him and you know it, but your afraid because of the difference in color, then go for it! It really doesn't matter. But it seems like you don't know if you like him?! Why don't you try to get together with him in person. Maybe you guys could have a solid talk. On the outside, boys don't seem like they care about stuff like this, but if you sit down and talk to him I can bet you he will  prove differently. Maybe he has feelings for you, or maybe he just wants to be friends. If he's OK with it, why don't you try going out with him again? Maybe just for a few days, and see if then you could figure out if you like him enough to keep dating. If you don't, tell him; he'll understand. And about the phone calls: How do you know he isn't just really, really busy? I hope everything turns out fine. Good luck! Sincerely,

~~~~LOLGURLZ~~~~


Dear Jess & Ashley:
My parents have been fighting a lot. My brother and sister can never get along, and my BFF ditched me for the popular crowd. I've been getting really bad grades in math, plus the kids at school started teasing me, because I look really dorky and I have glasses and braces. The only thing that ever helps me is talking to my cousin Melanie, but she's away in college, and I barely ever see her. She's also really busy so I can't email her or talk to her on the phone very much. I'm afraid my parent's are going to get divorced, and I'm really scared! Please help me think of some ways to calm down and have fun!!!!
~~~~And It All Falls Apart~~~~

Dear And It All Falls Apart,
First of all, take a long, slow, deep breath. Let it out. Go outside and get some fresh air. Look at the sky. Smile. For real. Once this is done, you should be a little calmer. Now, about your parents, listen, it's OK if they get divorced. You'll get through it, trust us. Both of our parents are divorced, and even though it's a huge change, it's not always bad. Think about it, if your parents get divorced, they won't always be fighting! Plus you get to have two rooms! How cool is that? Your brother and sister? Just ignore them. And don't get involved. Please, don't get involved. Let them fight. It's their problem not yours. And for the kids who are teasing you: DON'T LISTEN TO THEM. They are two-faced jerks and they aren't worth your time.  Neither was your BFF. Our advice is to keep active, make new friends, and try not to focus on your problems. Because we betcha soon enough the sun will be shining and you'll be smiling and everything will be OK. Just remember: Life isn't about waiting for the storm to end, it's about learning to dance in the rain. Make the best of it, and don't worry.

~~~~LOLGURLZ~~~~





Hey LOLGurlz! I need some 
advice. I am completely in
love with this guy. LOL. And
he is 2 years older than me, I
am in 7th grade and he is
in
9th!!! He has a girlfriend.
And the worst part is that
last year our school did a play.
We did Willy Wonka And The
Chocolate Factory. He was Willy
Wonka and I was an Oompa
Loompa. During Cast
Hug his girlfriend gave me the
"Devil Eyes". Now he's going
to High School and I'll never
see him again! His little bro will
torture me and my life will
fall apart!!!! What should I do???
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~~~~Heart Broken~~~~

Dear Heart Broken,

We completely understand.
This has happened to many
girls all over the place. Sorry
it had to happen to you. =(
The thing is, there's not much
we can do about it. There are
a few choices, but they aren't
good ones.

A) You could completely forget
about him. There are plenty of
other guys out there, and you might
even find one you like better!

B) You could try to become friends
with him. Figure out where he hangs
out and his schedule and all. Chances
are, if you stay close to where
he is, you'll  bump into him. Say
hi, and start a conversation.
You could become friends, which
is one step closer.

Or,

C) Don't worry about anything.
It will all fall into place later. If
you aren't meant to be with him,
then you aren't meant to be with
him.

We know these aren't good
choices, but what else can
you do? Sorry if we couldn't help.
The best of luck,

~~~~LOLGURLZ~~~~


LOLGURLZ: I have a crush on this guy, but whenever I have the guts to ask him out, my confidence just falls apart! What do I do?
~~~~Boy-Crazy~~~~

Dear Boy Crazy,
Well if I was you I would just ask him. If he says "NO", than don't let him get to you. If he's the right guy he'll come to his senses. Maybe not at first, but he's the one missing out. When you ask him, don't be nervous, just be brave. Another thing to do is ask him on the phone, or maybe in a note?!?!? If you're not ready for that then maybe just write him an anonymous love letter. Eventually he'll get
curious and figure it out. And you never know, he may like you too and just not have the guts to make the first move! =D Whatever happens, just stay confident and don't let him rain on your parade. Your friends,

~~~~LOLGURLZ~~~~

Hey I am 13 and I have a baby blanket that I call "blankie". You're probably thinking, what's the big deal?!? But the big deal is that I still NEED it!  Do you think I'm to old to be using it? Is it fine or should I tell my blankie goodbye?  All my friends know about and they don't care but... you know...??
~~~~Am I A Baby?~~~~

Dear Am I A Baby,
Well a lot of girls still need a blankie and it's not so bad! But if you feel like you need to say goodbye, maybe you could try sleeping with it only every other night? Personally, we don't think it's anything to worry about. You should keep your blanket, many people keep things from when they were little. For example, Jess still has a stuffed lamb she sleeps with all the time! If people are making fun of you, just ignore them, they're the ones being immature.

~~~~LOLGURLZ~~~~